The Open Chair Cafe

A welcoming space for honest conversations about life's many transitions, grief, relationships, caregiving, aging, and healing.

What is The Open Chair Cafe?

A welcoming space for honest conversations about life's many transitions — relationships, grief, caregiving, divorce, aging, uncertainty, personal struggles, healing, hope, and new beginnings.

This is a place where people can gather, share, listen, and feel understood without judgment. We sit in a circle, over tea and light refreshments, and create space for the conversations that matter most to us.

Sometimes people do not need someone to fix their problems. Sometimes they simply need a safe place to sit, talk, and know they are not alone.

The Open Chair Cafe isn't about advice or solutions. It's about presence, listening, and belonging. Whether you're navigating a major life transition, processing loss, supporting a loved one, or simply seeking community—you belong here. All experiences, feelings, and perspectives are honored.

Welcoming Death Café circle with people gathered in conversation

Who Should Come?

You might be interested if:

  • You're navigating relationship changes or challenges
  • You're processing grief, loss, or major life transitions
  • You're caring for a loved one or facing aging
  • You're exploring healing, hope, and new beginnings
  • You seek community and to feel understood

All are welcome:

  • Any age, background, or life experience
  • Any belief system or worldview
  • Anyone navigating life's transitions
  • Those seeking connection and understanding
  • First-time attendees and regular participants

What to Expect

🕐 Duration

Each gathering typically lasts 90 minutes—enough time to settle in, share, and reflect without feeling rushed.

🧋 Atmosphere

Comfortable seating arranged in a circle, tea and light refreshments, and a peaceful, welcoming space designed for meaningful conversation.

💬 The Conversation

Mary will share opening reflections, then invite the circle to share thoughts, questions, and stories. Participation is always optional—you can simply listen if you prefer.

🤝 Community

This is a judgment-free zone where all perspectives are honored. What's shared in the café stays in the café—confidentiality is sacred.

Schedule & Details

Frequency: Gatherings occur weekly, creating regular opportunities to connect and explore these meaningful conversations.

Location: Serving Moriarty, Edgewood, Cedar Crest, NM and surrounding areas. Specific meeting location details are shared upon RSVP.

Time: Contact Mary for current dates, times, and any special themed gatherings coming up.

Cost: Free and open to everyone. No registration required, but RSVPs help us prepare.

For current dates, times, and location details, please contact Mary directly.

Ready to Join Us?

Whether you're a longtime seeker or exploring these conversations for the first time, we'd love to have you join our Open Chair Cafe circle.

Contact Mary for Details

Have questions about the Open Chair Cafe? Want to know more before attending? Reach out—Mary is always happy to chat and answer your questions.